This site was produced in consultation with young people in Nottinghamshire by NDVF
Respect not Fear

In this website...

Don’t forget to have a go at our four revealing relationships games…

How Respectful are you to your partner?  Get real with yourself and try our Respectometer game to find out.

What is important to you in a relationship?  The Pyramid Game will help you decide.

Why do YOU think people mistreat their partners?  The ‘Excuses Excuses’ game uncovers the real reason for abuse.

When it comes to sex, what do consent and consequences mean? Find out in the Consent and Consequences game.

Respectometer - Test your relationship online

Keeping safe



Keeping safe when your partner is abusive
Practical tips for your protection

Are you worried about breaking up?
Breaking up with someone is always hard to do.  Get tips on keeping safe if you need to end a relationship.

How the law can help protect you
Get clued up on what's out there for you.

Are you stressed? Are you down?
Being abused can make people feel a range of emotions.  Find out about where you can get emotional support and advice.

Worried about being homeless?
There are safe places for you to go.

Are you worried about money?
Find out about financial abuse, and links to benefit advice.

Are you worried about your sexual health?
Sexual abuse, and where to go for sexual health advice.

Are you affected by your or others abuse of drugs and alcohol?
Know where to go for drug/alcohol advice.

Mobile phone safety
Although we are always advised to carry mobile phones for our safety, find out about how they can also have a part to play in abusive relationships.


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